I am having the best day ever.
Up at 6am so I could drive Chris to work and then drop the car at the dealer for some minor maintenance, I was on the train this morning by 8am on my way downtown Stuttgart with the challenge of filling the day. With nasty weather outside, Starbucks was an easy choice to start the day. (At this time of year I'd rather dodge snow dumping from the sky than this nasty, rainy, slush-making business.)
I spent the first three and a half hours in the upstairs lounge at my favorite Starbucks. I'd been worried I'd grow bored sitting with my laptop in a coffee shop, but I was being ridiculous, apparently. I was a machine, putting together a calendar for the upcoming year for the Writers' Group, working on a story I've been miraculously focused on lately, and up catching up with a few friends via e-mail. Something I've noticed is that I'm constantly saying to friends that I'd like to "catch up," when what I should be doing is staying up in the first place. I hear a resolution coming... A delicious peppermint mocha and a nice stretch of time later, I left my cozy spot to seek out something for lunch.
Sushi for lunch is awesome, and sushi for one is a nice way to spend an hour. After that I walked (almost) straight to the store that shall remain unnamed (in case Chris actually reads a blog of mine) to find and purchase the one little thing I'd been looking for all over to complete Chris' Christmas, but what apparently is only carried downtown.
After that success I did a little window shopping until I passed an old man sitting against a cement building, his hat set in front of him with a few coins inside and a tired look on his face. With nothing in particular to do, I shopped the nearby Christmas Market stands for a good deal on some food, settling on some bratwursts in a sliced baguette and a mug of gluhwein. While attempting not to spill as I shuffled through a sea of shoulders and shopping bags, I was surprised to hear my name. It was Sarah and her husband, Matthew, downtown for some shopping and getting food, themselves. Sarah, I recently met through a mutual friend, and her husband, I met right then. We chatted a minute and then I explained I needed to make a quick run, but I'd be back. When I handed the old man the brats and gluwein, his eyes red with what I hope was fatigue and not drunkeness, he said thank you and that was all I needed. I spent the next little bit talking with Sarah and Matthew until it was again time to wander.
I ended up wandering right back to the same Starbucks at which I'd begun my day, this time with a less fancy coffee, but a big, fancy, chocolate cookie to put a cherry on the afternoon. And I just felt like writing about today, because so many days pass right by without much appreciation for all the good they bring: I didn't want to let this one go by without some gratitude.
I started this year reading a book called The Happiness Project, by Gretchin Rubin, where a writer devotes an entire year to becoming a happier person. Each chapter is devoted to one month and one set of goals to achieve the main goal for that month. As I often do, I started it with gusto but got lazy about half-way through. But last night something made me pick it up and I read through a chapter devoted to gratitude. Gretchin writes about how easily we overlook all the good in our lives, and how unfortunate it is to wait until some catastrophe wakes us up to really appreciate it. In an attempt to learn from other people's catastrophes, she tried turning each aggravation into gratitude, and I really like that. So today, I was grateful to be up early because that meant I got to come downtown and explore on my own for the day. And I'm grateful that I had to come downtown (not having a way to get anywhere else) because I've gotten some serious writing done today, saw some friends, found that last gift for my husband, and got to feed somebody who was hungry. (If you're one who scoffs at people who fall for the sympathy act along major shopping streets, think of it like this: most of us will spend $10 on 2 coffees from Starbucks, like I've done today, without a second thought, so why can't we spend the same to put some hot food and maybe a little hot, mulled wine in someone's stomach? There's a reason I don't give money when I pass someone with their hand out, but something's happened to someone whose dignity allows them to openly beg, and I don't mind sharing some kindness with a stranger.)
Did I mention the sun came out, too?
So today I'm grateful that I have people to shop for for Christmas, that I have the means to spend the day wandering and writing in a city buzzing with the season and drinking overpriced coffee, and that I'm still lucky enough to have a full-functioning body and a home to return to tonight. Although there are countless things I'm thankful for today, at this moment that which I am most grateful is that today is just an ordinary day in my life. And I think that's pretty spectacular.
Have a Merry Christmas, a Happy Hanukkah, a Festive Kwanzaa, and a Great Festivus, and a new year overflowing with joy and success. I hope that if you're reading this, you know how much I appreciate the fact that you take the time to stop by. I also hope that if you haven't done so in a while, you'll stop and think about the ordinary things that make your life good.
Love and happiness to all.
Monday, December 6, 2010
|Chris and I in front of the Blue Mosque|
So we were off to the farthest place east I've ever been, ready to brave the chaos of the bazaars and for me to step into Asia for the first time. We were eager to search out certain street food and learn what it's like to walk around a city where many citizens drop prayer rugs in the streets for when the call to prayer rises up from nearby mosques. And although not every aspect of this trip was spectacularly positive, it was an amazing experience we won't soon forget.
Thanks to the recommendation of a friend (thanks, Melody!), we stayed in great little pension right in Old Istanbul with views of the famous Blue Mosque and Aya Sofya from the roof terrace, called Side Hotel and Pension. Clean, inexpensive, and perfectly located, our trip was off to a great start at 11pm Wednesday night upon check-in. We planned out the next few days and settled in for a good night's rest...
...and then, Good morning, Istanbul! The 5:45am call to prayer rising from the city and into our windows was a little startling coming out of a deep sleep. Being my first time in a Muslim country I had no idea that I wouldn't have to worry about setting my alarm, for the amplified song-like prayers to start the day would do the job. I opened my eyes and listened, unsure of what I was hearing, half-convinced I was still dreaming. Chris, of course, slept right through it, but I listened to the whole thing before going back to sleep for a couple more hours.
This is where the stories and warnings truly begin for any future travelers to this great city, for we were and you will be pulled in to one of the many attempts to sucker you into considering buying a fine, Turkish carpet, what you would think must be the life blood of this place by the actions on its devoted vendors.
His English was perfect and he was wearing a Sarasota, Florida golf club jacket when he called out to us as we passed, making our way around other obvious salesmen to Sofya ahead. "American?" he asked. "Canadian," we replied without slowing down. "I'm not selling anything, I was just curious. I'm from Florida." He smiled and we turned around, embarrassed of our rudeness. "We are, too, actually" we said. "I didn't think you sounded very Canadian," was his reply.
|Aya Sofya, former mosque|
|Inside Aya Sofya|
So against better judgement, we went for the lesson and the apple tea, both of which were great. When fifteen minutes and a free lesson turned into nearly three hours and me really wanting to throw a few thousand dollars at him for a beautiful hand-woven, wool masterpiece of a carpet made with all natural dyes, it was clear we'd been had. Luckily for us, Chris is more immune to such ploys than I, and we were able to escape without handing over a cent. Mr. Sarasota had made excellent use of such sale tactics as authority (he was the owner and was the only one who could make us such an incredible deal), time sensitivity (we couldn't leave and think about it because he had an appointment and would have to call a guy with the credit card machine to run over since this office wasn't normally a shop for sales), and so on. How could we walk away knowing we were throwing away such an amazing opportunity to own a beautiful piece of art which we could pass along to our children, paying just $3,000 instead of the $15,000 we would surely pay in the States? He knew, KNEW we'd regret it once we got home and realized what a deal we let slip through our fingers.
So even though we lost a few hours on our first day in Istanbul to a sales ploy, we decided to call it a much needed lesson to start a trip that would surely be chock full of other opportunities to avoid. (What was more interesting was upon scouring the internet that night at the hotel, Chris found descriptions of similar experiences with a Turkish man from Sarasota who had an office near Aya Sofya, with every weird detail lining up with our afternoon. This man is skilled!)
|Us in a few years?|
|Every line of children that passed was a long line of enthusiastic "Hello!"s|
|Inside the Basilica Cistern|
|Medusa Head One|
|Medusa Head Two|
Istanbul at night was just as beautiful as it was in the day, though we knew we had much more to explore in the coming days. Our first day, Thanksgiving Day, concluded with some delicious Turkish cuisine at a restaurant called Amedros Bistro. Excellent food, excellent service, and some nice tea at the end of the meal made for a memorable Thanksgiving in Turkey.
At the end of the evening that melodic question entered my mind... with how beautiful, friendly, and richly historic this place already was to us, why did Constantinople get the works?
That's nobody's business but the Turks.